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Pen on paper, from paper to paper and then I bind with a stapler, that’s how I bring my thoughts to life.”

Good evening people, busy day unh? Well, here’s your encouragement, you’ll never get less busy, yeah you heard me, never ever forever, you’ll just eventually have to fall in love with your work or job or whatever it is that you are chasing.

Let me take you through this, aiit? Thank you.

As a baby, what mattered then was mums breasts, pooping on yourself and making a lot of noise crying. As a growing child, likes changed, you now have school, you now tell funny stories, tell few lies (yeah, remember all those fake stories, those ones you cooked up, hmm….yeah those ones) bruise yourself while playing rough, see cartoons, bruise yourself again, school inter house sports on and on…… all this while you are busy watching others grow and thinking to yourself, when do I get to “Grow up”? Soon enough.

Now, you are a teenager, you’ve got more to worry about there’s this person you are crushing on, and you really need to yield to the Holy Spirit to help you focus on the right thing—Spiritual Growth— there’s Mum and Dad, and they are ALWAYS  reminding of how you need to constantly remember where you are coming from and where you are going. How they really expect you to wake up one morning all grown up and mature , they never want to see you repeat the same mistakes they made, there’s school and your grades and then you have dreams (big ones) and you are still trying to figure out how to birth them.

And what’s this thing about always being bored I hear everywhere, frankly, boredom is a disease and its spreading really fast. The thing is; a lot of young people need  to understand that happiness is a personal thing. You can only get to share in people's in happiness and also give them a chance to share in yours, the only human being that can make you happy is you!

If you don’t learn how to truly find happiness and be happy all by yourself, what happens when your friends leave or break your trust, what happens then? I’m guessing it’s gonna be a long steep slope down into loneliness.

You should know that being ALONE and being LONELY are not the same thing, being alone involves a complete understanding of self- worth, it means being able to find happiness from within, enjoying being all by yourself, finding peace in your Maker, From Him and in Him, anyone who finds this will always be a light in the dark and a good reason to smile for many.        
Loneliness on the other hand is a disease eating real deep into  happiness, keeps you worried for no reason, and it never comes without its friends—depression and a window for temptation.
Soon you are all grown up, and planning to get married, trying to settle in life with the One. You have a job and you still have plans to birth your dreams with an added advantage, you now have your own finances! In the same time, you’re either trying to be a good mother or Father and a good husband or wife as well, you love your kids, you have to be there for them, you want to see them grow, you want them happy. You still have your parents but now they need you, they need you to be around them, they want to see their grand-children and they want to spend time with them.

Let’s dig deeper. Shall we?
If you are a woman, you’ll have to be both a good Mum and a great wife; you definitely would have to be your best at both. Your husband wants to know he still gets his alone time with you (oh yeah) without the kids disturbing and yet you have kids who would love to run all around the house making noise and asking Mummy funny questions.
With all of these you’ve got to maintain a growing relationship with GOD ensuring you spend quality time with HIM, without whom there would be no purpose for all I’ve just mentioned.

For a man, here’s the deal, first you are a man, and mehn being one takes the LOVE of GOD, so first you have to Love GOD greatly and you have to understand to teach your wife and kids to LOVE GOD also. This is the only way to establish and maintain LOVE in the family, its all about GOD.

You’ll be husband to your wife taking care of her emotional and financial needs simultaneously, you’ll also have to be a great father to the kids, a great Dad who will show them the way to find GOD. Taking care of their moral, emotional and financial needs. *mehn, that’s a lot*

So, tell me, when do you ever get less busy? You only would have to learn to apply yourself to time. You cannot manage time, there’s no such thing as time management because you can neither control time nor save some up for tomorrow. You exist under its influence, so getting less busy, ahn ahn... that never happens, you’ve just got to get better with making prudent and wise use of every hour.
So, now you know, its always going to be busy, so get ready, be steady and I’m sure you’ll get home strong.

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